Break ups in relationships have always raised many questions beginning with “why?” At that very moment you really don’t want to even try to attempt things to bring back the ex to you.

You will definitely not wish to just linger around and let strange thoughts and questions move around your head to make you upset. Letting these pinching questions enter the domain of your mind can be very destructive.

Usually people don’t want to face things like break ups in a relation and try to sort out things timely. No one would want to have such a relationship where sit by the window and listen to either sad melodies or write melancholic poems.

The hardest part is when you depict through your actions how distressed you are. You don’t call her, go to see her to settle things or text her and such rudeness spoils the relation by making matters worse letting your ex think that everything is over and there’s no more space for settlement.

Greatest of all unfruitful attempts is to go for a rebound relationship which will never help in bringing things to normal.

A rebound relationship can only add to misunderstandings in a situation when you really desire to get your ex back.

A better solution to make things better is go for a healthy and lively vacation, hang out with friends who can console you and divert your attention to positive side of the picture or spend time with family.

Time is a medicine which works gradually and relives the pain you once had so let it work its way and in a couple of days or a month you’ll see things getting back to normal and smoke of illusions blow away bringing the relationship to a better state.