“Oh, darling, let your body in, let it tie you in, in comfort.”

Anne Sexton (1928 – 1974)

Are you comfortable in your skin? Are you confident in your sex appeal as you walk down the street or slip between the sheets? Have you made a peace pact with your beautiful body or are you like the millions of women who would rather come face-to-face with a one eyed toad than look at themselves naked? In order to achieve a sensual mind-set you MUST love yourself, inside and out! Read on for your first step.

Well, admittedly it can take some self-wooing and acceptance to get into that space. But the good news is it can be learned and cultivated for a successful sensual state-of-mind! But how did this happen? How did we get so uncomfortable and far away from whom we are?

Face it. Most of us are so busy with “life” and our “to do lists” that we don’t take the time to slow down, connect and appreciate our physical image. This prevents us from living in our feminine power. And even though we are suffering from the consequences – loss of passion – we’re too tired and resigned to a “less than desirable” relationship to do anything about it.

We forget how delicious, sensual, blissful, and juicy our lives used to be. We’re living a robotic life and on some level we know our feminine soul is buried and dying. Consequently we feel out of sorts when it comes to expressing our sensuality and sexuality.

The solution is to get out of our head and into our heart connecting to that space and memory of what brings us joy and passion. When you take the time to do this for yourself and your relationship you will awaken your sensuality and create a passionate life on purpose.

One of the quickest ways to access your feminine power is to fall in love with your body…that’s right – every square inch of it – dimpled thighs, uncontrolled curves, and bulging belly’s.

Start by standing in front of a mirror by candlelight, pour yourself a glass of wine if needed and put on some nurturing tunes. Send love to every inch of your body. Thank your thighs for allowing you to walk every day, thank your hips for expanding to allow those beautiful babes into the world and/or giving you that sassy saunter, and thank your stomach for reminding you that we live in a country of plenty. How lucky are we?

Be grateful! When you start to appreciate your body you will start to feel more comfortable in your skin and with this comes peace and with this comes a sizzling sensuality.

When you live in this space of truly loving your body, you emanate a vibe that is irresistible to men – they’ll be drawn to you like bees to honey.